A Morning Star Has Fallen – A Tribute to Nancy Romanus

Obituary - BAPTIST HEALTH/MILESTONE WELLNESS CENTER 

sunrise, when only the stars were awake, Nancy was already at her post—unlocking doors, turning on lights, and preparing to welcome the earliest risers of our community. At precisely 5:20 a.m., Monday through Friday, she greeted members with her warm smile, quick humor, and genuine kindness, setting the tone for the day ahead. 

Nancy’s sudden passing on Christmas Day has left a profound emptiness within the Milestone family. For both staff and members, she was far more than the first face seen in the morning—she was a constant, a comfort, and a friend. Her presence made the early hours feel less dark, and the hardest workouts feel a little lighter. 

Through her years at Milestone, Nancy formed meaningful connections with the people she saw each day. According to her sister, Sarah McNabb, Nancy spoke often about the members and staff, sharing their good news, stories, and successes with pride and affection. She remembered names, asked thoughtful questions, and celebrated progress alongside those she greeted each morning. Many members came to rely on those brief conversations with Nancy as an essential part of their routine—a reminder that they were seen, valued, and encouraged. 

Family was central to Nancy’s life. She often spoke fondly of her husband, Richard Romanus, who passed away in 2011. His memory remained close to her heart. Nancy is also survived by her son, Richard, who lives in Seattle with his wife, Trisha, and their children, Adien and Noah, and of course her sister Sarah McNabb. She took great pride in her family and cherished staying connected to their lives, even across the miles. 

Nancy had one special companion who held a cherished place in her heart—her beloved cat, Oliver. Often referred to as “the boy”, Oliver was a constant source of comfort and joy for Nancy. In a touching continuation of her story, Oliver has since been adopted and is now thriving in a new, loving home with another Milestone employee, ensuring that a piece of Nancy remains close within the community she loved so deeply. 

The impact Nancy made is perhaps best captured through the words of the members she greeted each morning. Barbara Durbin Ricks shared, “Nancy was a guaranteed source of joy and happiness when arriving at Milestone. Even though I live in Baton Rouge now, I constantly think of the wonderful Milestone staff.” Alison Kightlinger Cardoza added, “We will miss her so much. She was so full of life, had the best smile, and her love will never be forgotten.” 

Nancy’s light shone brightest in the quietest hours of the day. Though that morning star has fallen, her warmth, laughter, and love will continue to guide the Milestone community she so dearly touched. A memorial service celebrating Nancy’s life will be held in the spring, with details to be shared once arrangements are finalized.