Is it possible to find love in Louisville? That’s what we’re aiming to find out in what will be a series about dating. Last week, we profiled six single gals. This week, we’re introducing six unattached guys.

Over the next several months, we’ll check in with our singles to see how they’re faring and whether they find love or, perhaps, love will find them.

Jim Williams

Age: 50, but feel (and hopefully look) younger.

Occupation:  Capitol Reporter, 84WHAS.

Seeking: Ms. Right. A fulfilling, long-term relationship and marriage.

Relationship history: Married four years to Ms. Wrong, divorced the past 16 years.  The downside: We didn’t have the kids I’ve always wanted. The upside: We didn’t have kids because she would’ve been the world’s worst parent.

Deal-breakers: Cigarette smoking.

Must-haves: An upbeat, “bubbly” yet strong personality, someone who enjoys life. She also has a strong mind and is in touch with current events, sports and entertainment.

Meet ‘n’ greet: Haven’t found the best place to meet someone yet.

Dating diss: In 1981, when I commented on how cute the singer in a band was, my friend very seriously said, “Never ever date a musician. Ever.”  Three years later in another state, I ignored said advice, spent lots of money, and it was over in four months.

Family values: I don’t have any kids but definitely still want at least one.

The ex factor: A couple have actually gotten to be good friends, and I think they’d note my fierce loyalty and the fact I’ve never cheated on anyone, but also that I’m very disorganized around the house and messy.  I also try with a screwdriver or hammer, but I’m not very handy.

Valentine’s Day is... over. Again.

I’m single … because I’m not really a workaholic, but think I’ve probably used work to avoid finding those “good” places to find someone. I always tell myself if I had a good reason (her) to leave earlier, I would. I’m ready to live up to that any time.

Chris Rich

Age: ?

Occupation: Business consultant for Humana.

Seeking: Fulfillment in all aspects.

Relationship history: Single, never married; currently dating my ambition, and she’s looking good right now.

Deal-breakers: Anyone with stalker tendencies, low ambition and insecurities.

Must-haves: Good sense of humor, open-minded, goals, God, and your own life and social circles.

Meet ‘n’ greet: Social gatherings.

Dating diss: Let’s just say someone had to use the restroom pretty badly.

Family values: Don’t have any kids currently.

Valentine’s Day is ... for losers, lol!

I’m single … due to there being slim-pickings in our great city.

Gary Hirsch

Age: 45.

Occupation: Owner of Highland Fish Market and Wine Shoppe in Middletown.

Seeking: I’m not really searching – I’m just willing to take a another chance to have that special someone. I want to be amazed every time I see the one I love and have faith that she feels the same about me. I just want to have someone to share everything with and to have mutual respect and understanding of one another.

Relationship history: Divorced.

Deal-breakers: Barflies, smokers, heavy drinkers, drug users and liars.

Must-haves: Above all, there needs to be communication, honesty and loyalty.

Meet ‘n’ greet: You can meet people at the airport, local specialty shops, wine tastings and through friends.

Dating diss: I once met a girl online through Jdate.com.  She lived in Chicago.  After two months of chatting via the phone I flew to Chicago and the girl who met me at the airport wasn’t even close to the girl in the pictures.  Her photos were at least 15 years old, and the 15 years didn’t do her very well! 

I explained to her the honesty factor and she said, “Let’s just go to your hotel room. Isn’t that what all men want anyway?” I caught a cab to the city, by myself, and had one of the best sushi meals ever! I flew back to Louisville the next morning.

Family values: Another child has always been an option for me. I have a 20-year-old son.

The Ex Factor: They’d say, “As crazy as it sounds, there is nothing that Gary wouldn’t do for the one he loves. He demands honesty and trust to the end of the earth.”

Valentine’s Day is ... a day to take a little extra time to share with the one you love.

I’m single … because I am not looking for friends or a hook-up. I am looking for a lifetime of love, partnership and romance – and haven’t found it yet.

J.P. Davis

Age: 27.

Occupation: University Advancement, University of Louisville.

Seeking: I’m searching for lots of laughter, shared interests, passions and dreams. I’m searching for a spontaneous spirit and adventure. I’m searching for lust and romance. I’m searching for intellectual stimulation and monogamous commitment. I’m searching for wealth, success and accomplishment. I’m searching for a best friend.

Relationship history: None until 2006. My greatest accomplishment to date was, for the first time, to truly be comfortable in my own shoes. I found contentment with the realization that I was gay. So the last four years have really been a learning process for me when it comes to romantic relationships.

Deal-breakers: I would never date a guy who is not comfortable in his own shoes. I’m looking for someone who is authentic and confident. I can’t date someone in the closet or living multiple lifestyles. I also wouldn’t date anybody with excessive behavioral problems like overeating, obsessive drinking, smoking, drugs and over-exercising.

Must-haves: He’s got to radiate with positive energy and have a good heart. He’s got to have a healthy, balanced lifestyle. I’d like him to be driven, ambitious and have a great sense of humor. He’s got to be social and be able to have a meaningful conversation with anybody.

Dating diss: I did go on a date once with a guy who reminded me of a stereotypical conservative yahoo, but he made me so sick, I literally excused myself for the bathroom and left in the middle of dinner. I still feel pretty bad, but I just couldn’t take it.

Family values: I’m really looking forward to having kids, but I’m not rushing things at all. I do wish our state made it easier for people to adopt. For now, I have three beautiful nephews I like to spoil.

The ex factor: I’ve been told I’m a heartbreaker. I’ve also been told I’m “marriage material.” What I think that means is: “Right now I prefer the Brad Pitts of the world, but when I settle down, you would be perfect!”

I’m single … but I try not to put any pressure on myself or the “single” situation. Growing up gay in a straight man’s world forces you to learn how to be independent rather early in life. For now, I love my friends. I love dating and meeting new people.

Dan O’Bryan.

Age: 41.

Occupation: College program coordinator/developmental education teacher.

Seeking: Someone who looks like either Heather Graham or Megan Fox. But seriously, I just think it would be nice to meet someone special again.

Relationship history: My wife wanted a divorce after 12 years of marriage and 14 years together. Fortunately, we get along well and are focused on raising our son the best we can.

Deal-breakers: I won’t date women who don’t have a sense of humor, are negative, don’t take care of themselves, are hardcore Republicans or University of Kentucky fans. Go Cards!

Must-haves: You have to have a sense of humor. I love to laugh and I love to make people laugh. Also, I’m a huge University of Louisville fan and a current events junkie, so you have to like sports, and you have to know what’s going in the world.

Meet ‘n’ greet: You can meet someone just as easily at work or out on the town as you can standing in line at the grocery store.

Dating diss: In college, I was set up with a beautiful young lady who apparently hadn’t quite broken up with her boyfriend and had literally just been in an argument with him on the phone before I picked her up. (I know this because I could hear it through her front door.) When she opened her door up, her eyes were bloodshot and she was sniffling. I asked if everything was OK. I offered to cancel, but she was a trooper and we went to my fraternity’s hayride. Needless to say, the evening was awkward.

Family values: I have the greatest son in the whole world!

The ex factor: I would like to think that they would say I had a great sense of humor and that I treated them all well.

Valentine’s Day is ... one of those holidays that can be great when you’re dating or married or it can be a non-factor when you’re single,

unless everyone around you is either dating or married. Then it can be kind of annoying.

I’m single … because I’ve been divorced for almost a year and haven’t dated anyone seriously.

Frankie Hilbert

Age: I turned 29 on Valentine’s Day.

Occupation: Insurance sales.

Seeking: I am searching for my best friend and soulmate.

Relationship history: Never been married.

Deal-breakers: Someone who is self-centered, argumentative and irresponsible

Must-haves: Outgoing, adventurous, romantic and ambitious.

Meet ‘n’ greet: Still trying to figure that out.

Dating diss: Blind dates. I have never had any luck when it comes to blind dates. They can be very awkward and just seem to never pan out for me.

Family values: I want kids for sure. But I want to get married first, then have kids when the time is right.

The ex factor: I would like to think they would say nice things about me. I’m still friends with some of my exes.

Valentine’s Day is .. overrated. You should show your love and appreciation 365 days a year.

I’m single … I just haven’t found the person I’m looking for yet.

Contact writer Angie Fenton at TheDish@voice-tribune.com.