The world is an increasingly complicated place, but one rule has held true for centuries: People who have financial security control the destiny of the people who donâ€™t.
As the late John Savage, a frequent speaker at the Million Dollar Round Table, said, â€œSpenders in the world always work for savers. It never happens the other way around.â€
The rich get richer for many reasons, but one is that they take a long-term view about their money.
I was flipping though the news channels when I heard a guest demand that we not give tax rebates to poor people. â€œRich people accumulate wealth. Poor people accumulate things,â€ he said.
He had a trickle up theory of economics. He believed that poor people will go on wild spending sprees. The money will burn a hole in a poor personâ€™s pocket, while wealthy people would sock it away.
Most poor people need their income just to survive, but there are many who are broke because they donâ€™t handle money well.
There is a financial dividing line that separates savers and spenders. The savers wind up with wealth and the spenders wind up with debt. People on their way to wealth have good savings habits. People living beyond their means blow money on stuff they donâ€™t need.
When I was growing up, I used to think some people didnâ€™t have good jobs. They lived in rundown houses and often had their cars repossessed. I found out that they made as much money as my parents. Sometimes more. The people who lived in rundown houses spent money on gadgets they didnâ€™t use and motorboats that never made it in the water. They lent money to â€œfamily and friendsâ€ even though they should have been paying their own bills first. They had no sense of long-term planning and ultimately had no money.
Spending beyond your means is an addiction. A spending addiction is probably as hard to cure as a drug addiction. It requires changing lifestyles.
There is going to be a day when it all hits the fan. Americans are competing against workers in countries like China who have great savings habits.
Some argue that blowing money is a form of â€œfinancial freedom.â€ I hate the J.G. Wentworth commercial where people are screaming â€œItâ€™s my money and I want it now.â€ I have an obvious bias. I am in the business of setting up structured settlements for injured people. Wentworth is in the business of ripping them apart. Wentworth has an easy task. All they have to do is get people to focus on the immediate and forget about the future. I try to get them to focus on the long-term.
Wentworth and I have a different view of â€œfinancial freedom.â€ Wentworthâ€™s idea of financial freedom is that you can get your hands on a wad of money and spend it immediately.
To me, real freedom means stability, security and independence. It means never running out of money. It means never having to work at a job you hate, because you canâ€™t afford to quit. It means never becoming a slave to your creditors.
In short, it means having control and stability in your life.
That is what real financial freedom is about.
Our grandparents didnâ€™t have access to quick money. Debt absolutely frightened them. Maybe we should be frightened, too.
As Joe Nocera pointed out in â€œA Piece of the Action,â€ his classic history of personal finance, the rise of credit cards, mutual funds, 401(K) plans and individuals investing in the stock market are all things that have happened primarily since the mid-1960s.
Our parents lived in an era in which they worked a lifetime at one company and got a monthly pension when they turned 65. Our children will switch jobs frequently and will need to depend on contributions and the investment results of 401(K) plans to allow them to retire.
Our parents and grandparents had systems to protect them. Our children and grandchildren are on their own.
Janis Joplin sang, â€œFreedom is just another word for nothing left to lose.â€ Actually, Janis (and Kris Kristofferson, who wrote the song) had it semi-right.
Real freedom means living in a way in which you can have fun, enjoy life and know that you are never going to hit a time when you are out of cash and out of luck.
Instead of, â€œItâ€™s my money and I want it now,â€ a better way to think is, â€œItâ€™s my money and I want it always.â€
Don McNayâ€™s new book, Life Lessons from the Lottery, will be released on Kindle on Nov. 14.