Bachelor Behavior

Tender From Tinder: Part 1

I was lying in the Hammam at The Standard in South Beach, when it suddenly occurred to me that I could use some...

Strategery

Miyamoto Musashi, the great sword duelist from Edo period Japan, once said that he won the first half of his duels with...

The Wedding

My neighbor Sven recently asked me what it was like to be married.

The Surrogate

It was a quiet Sunday afternoon at the Mount Adams pool in June when I realized my mistake. A petite Asian...

The Man Date

Sitting at Basa, watching the little jalapeno float gracefully in my highball glass, I started to get nervous.

Happy Anniversary To Me

It was Valentine’s Day, 2011. I had just moved back to Louisville from northern California. I was alone in a city that...